While we love visiting with our loved ones, family members, and friends, interacting with individuals with later-stage dementia or Alzheimer’s Disease can have its hurdles. When memories and speech skills are impaired, our loved one may have difficulty communicating with us in the same ways they used to. But there are still lots of ways you can make your time with your loved one meaningful, and ensure they have the best possible quality of life.
The main focus of ‘dementia activities’ is creating a task that is ‘failure-free’. This means you aren’t working towards a specific goal, outcome, or end product, but rather engaging in an activity or experience together. The activity should be fun, carefree, and without stress, so that those participating can feel good and build self-esteem while they are doing it. Whether a loved one is in early stage, middle stage or late stage dementia, simple, expressive, or repetitive tactile experiences can help to alleviate boredom.
People with memory conditions have a tendency to get more easily confused as dementia progresses, so anything with detailed instructions or directions can be tricky. You don’t want anyone to feel as though they are struggling to complete a new activity correctly, or trying to make something ‘just right’ so keeping it open to interpretation is key.
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Music is a great way to stir memories, make connections, and offer moments of nostalgia to those with dementia and memory loss. Sing-alongs, live performers, and time spent enjoying music allow residents to bond together and feel part of a larger community. Music is also a great way to spark a memory - play songs for someone associated with positive memories, or experiences from their past. Opt for upbeat songs to raise the mood, or calm, instrumental music when it’s time to bring a soothing vibe. Music can help in all stages of dementia and is a powerful tool for boosting memories.
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A memory box can help your loved one feel connected to their own past, and root them in a sense of belonging. Fill a box with items that reference important milestones in your loved one’s life. Whether these include photo albums from the past, a scrapbook, references to cities they once lived or jobs they once held, or items of significance, they can help spark stories and memories. When visiting, you can go through the box with your loved one and reminisce about times in the past.
Sensory activities are also wonderful options for those in dementia care programs. Caregivers may offer hand massages that can be calming and relaxing for those with later stages of Alzheimer's or memory loss. These sensory experiences are often paired with scented lotions that offer calming aromatherapy to create the most soothing environment possible.
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No matter what type of activity you choose when visiting a loved one with memory loss, it is important to remember to keep it simple, and fun. It isn’t about getting anything right, it is just the act of doing something that will provide a sense of well-being and joy to their lives.
Pacifica Senior Living has a wide variety of Memory Care activities and programs designed for our residents with varying types of dementia and levels of memory loss. We strive to offer ways everyone can get involved and be engaged with one another from simple physical activities to card games, reminiscing programs, art and craft time, crosswords and word games, and musical therapy.
Check out our monthly newsletter of events or browse your local community’s activities calendar to see more about our Memory Care activities.